Afraid of doing the new adaptation in the new surroundings is always being a shadow my life. I inquire myself whether I will survive in there or not. It’s my bad habit. If I should face a new surrounding, then I become afraid to adapt and I always think of the worst possibilities. For example, I think that I won’t have friends there and also won’t feel comfort to live there then a changing happen to myself and it will make me to be a quiet and closed person. It’s maybe funny, but I can’t lie that those things are really make me can’t sleep because my mind is always be filled with them.
Here, I had had a real comfortable life. I love the atmosphere and I am surrounded with many good friends. At first, I also had a difficulty with the adaptation but as time goes by now I feel so into them. We face and pass everything together, have a lot of fun, and do laugh in every joke. I’m scared if I can’t find friends like them there.
I know everyone must be able to face new surroundings, so everyone must do that adaptation so he/she can survive and maybe do much better to his/her life. The first thing is please make that fear away. Keep thinking the positive ways, don’t be afraid to face it and keep yourself be friendly to others. If you’re good to them so they will be good to you also. Don’t make yourself be trapped in the old surroundings, because it just only make you feel down and don’t want to get closer with (many) new friends. Then, be active in every activity that holds in there so you won’t feel lonely and find an interesting with your surroundings. Don’t ever make yourself alone so that fear will come to you and make you don’t feel comfort with that place.
Ah, why I give that advice as if I’m the adviser hahahah that the fact is I’m the one who needs the advice. So, the answer is reveled by myself and I should apply those all when I begin to live in the new surroundings. Wish me luck there and hope I can be better to make everyone who supports me don’t feel disappointed with me.
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